“I want a healthy relationship, based on mutual respect and love, not on suffering and submission”.
“We loved each other, what happened, how can we recover the illusion, the affection?
“I want to be myself and to be able to express myself without fear.
“I am always attracted to the same type of man/woman, it just doesn’t work!
“I miss so many things in my life as a couple, everything has become mechanical!
There are three main causes that lead to conflict in a couple’s relationship:
- Lack of balance within the relationship.
- The absence of shared values and common purpose.
- The inability to communicate with respect and understanding.
Often it is no longer about being happy together but about being right, or looking for the problem or mistake in the other. This is the “end” of love.
Control, victimisation, jealousy, fear, guilt, lack of interest, frustration and suffering, violence … are serious obstacles to a harmonious and balanced love relationship.
I invite you to begin the journey!!!!
SEPARATION AND DIVORCE
“I know there is someone else in his life and I don’t know what to do, I am filled with anger and sadness.
“I want to break up, but I am afraid of the consequences”.
“I am afraid of losing my children’s affection because of the divorce”.
“We want to separate as friends, without losing respect and affection.
“We no longer love each other, but we are unable to end our relationship”.
Many people struggle with the question “Should I separate?” And there is the fear of being alone, of losing the affection of their children, the fear of financial and social consequences, or that the decision may be “wrong”.
There are no right and wrong decisions. People who make their decisions with honesty and courage, face reality, accept things as they are and, despite the pain, are able to make the best of each situation, are people who grow and mature from their experiences. In this sense, every decision they make will be the right one.